Let’s just say this past year was a HOT mess…
Here’s some things I’m going to write to motivate me and decided to share to inspire you
I realized while writing this, this helped my thought process and say girl get your life together, I am no way saying this is the best advice but if it motivates someone besides me then that’s all I need
Enjoy ~ Cors
Cut the crap, do not go out on nights you know you have an exam or something important the next day you will fail. Look at the syllabus first week, highlight, and write down dates in your planner. Get the extra credit it can change your B- to a B. Do the work and you will get the grade. Go to the library. Go to class. Roll out of bed, get coffee, walk fast, even if you’re late… get there. Go to tutoring. Go to your professor’s office hours. Ask your classmates. I don’t know how I would have pulled the grade I got in some classes without my classmates and getting to know my professor.
Getting Involved In College:
Join a club, just do it. It looks good on resumes. Some are an hour or less. Join major-related clubs, you can meet people who may be in your classes, people getting involved with major related clubs are normally the ones getting internships and jobs right away…shows dedication. Do something with your life. Even if you are working make the time. If you are just going to class and nothing else (maybe downtown on the weekend) you are doing college wrong. Join greek life, do something. You meet a lot of people this way. It’s great to help network.
Get Your Butt Out Of The Bed:
Your alarm clock went off, do NOT go back to sleep. You fall asleep? Woke up 1-3pm? Yeah it’s happened to me and my day was completely off. Waking up later makes the mind lazier even if you are tired early in the morning you can take a nap in the afternoon. Waking up earlier means you have more hours in the day to get stuff done. The earlier you get it done the more Grey’s Anatomy you can catch before bed that night.
Do What You Love, Figuring Yourself Out:
I’ve come to find the people I absolutely 110% love are people who are enriched and full of life. These people have things they are passionate about and they are sure of what they want. It’s so important to do what you love even if it’s just a hobby. You can get lost, you can loose sight too many times but having something to ground you would be important. Listening to your favorite album can be rewarding. Just go out and do what you need to do and you will find yourself. Don’t just work, and go home. If that’s you and it makes you whole then okay but if you find yourself constantly bored enrich yourself. One of the things I love doing is going to parks or trails. It’s you, your thoughts, and nature. You can be so focused on you. Be kind and love yourself.
Working Out, Being Healthy:
Come on now, another day watching Netflix all day making it through half a season taking small breaks to eat isn’t cutting it anymore. Start working out lightly, ease your way into it. Don’t do my mistake of doing an extreme 45 min. workout walking up and down steps, your body isn’t use to exercise so ease in. Drink water. Limit/No Soda. Eat Greens. Fiber. Protein. Eat a balanced diet. Do your body right. Once you get in routine, and break past the first couple of workouts you will learn to love it. Go to group classes and make workout buddies! Or go with someone you know sometimes to push you but not all the time do your own thing as well. Drink water. Drink water. Drink water.
Stage Fright With People:
One thing that I always get is nervous, and shy around people at times. I sometimes never know what to say or do. I don’t connect with them because I’m being shy and avoid or don’t talk them. I kid you not when I’m not doing too too great and I don’t feel pretty I do not talk to someone. I constantly pretend I’m texting someone to avoid eye contact with someone I want to talk to but can’t. Learn to love yourself, find out who you are. When you know who you are you can have the confidence. Rock out talking to them because they already saw you. This lil topic is more for me. I need to stop hating how I look and who I am and learn to love it then it will come to grace me with people. I currently am borderline outgoing and shy as idk what and it needs to stop.
The whole reason I really got inspired to write this was because of this. Do not settle. Do not search. Know yourself before you get to know someone else. Love yourself before loving someone. Know there is your couple time and your time. You don’t have to talk 24/7. I only want great love everything else I don’t want it’s a distraction. I often think of Meredith Grey and Derek Shepherd for the most part I want that love. I will get nothing less. I will wear heels at my wedding. He will be tall. He will love me. He will go to church with me. When it comes to love, never sell yourself short.