Out of everything in the world, what hurts the most? What do you take with you? For me, it tends to be the negative things that lure over my day. It can make a great day end up with me crawling in bed and never wanting to get out. If you have ever felt like this, you are not alone. What about the good comments and the people who believe in you? Where do you place them in your life? It’s time we separate from the things that make us feel lower than ourselves and delete negativity.
As humans we tend to want to be accepted or liked. I have known this to be true for me, I am always showing a friend something I wrote or even asking if I should post a picture. So it’s natural that when something bad comes attacking what you love and cherish you get hurt by it. I have seen some people I follow on Instagram turn off their comments because they’ve got caught on the bad comments from people.
Negativity and getting rid of it can mean numerous things. There can be negative people, influences, and atmospheres. If you have all three, you could find yourself sinking in real fast. There are people who might doubt or not believe in you. They may say a mean comment or talk you out of your dream. Influences that will get you on the wrong path, it can come from the wrong crowd. You know what I am talking about, I do not need to go there and neither do you. What you are surrounded with can have the biggest influence on you. Who is there when you are feeling down? What type of environment are you around? Is it one that includes the bad people and influences.
The best thing we can do is to try. Why should you try? You can break free from chains holding you down, and people holding you down. I can’t pinpoint where you need to start (I can barely do that for me even) but I know what can help. Deleting the bad influences. Physically or mentally, whatever you need to do. Just this week, I’ve deleted a couple of people from my life, unfollowed some sites, and overall decluttered my room! That is the start right there.
Another big thing is to make moves with better situations and people. Surround yourself with good people and a good environment. Take in the good things in life around you. You are not what someone else puts on you, you are much more. When you realize there are people who are on your side, grab them. They will be the most helpful to you during life. I am really glad that I have certain good people in my life!
Getting rid of all of the negative isn’t easy. It’s not easy to say goodbye to someone who meant a lot to you. It’s not easy to give up and rid of things. It is the most rewarding thing you can do for yourself. I believe in you and that you can do it!
Thank you so much for reading this! I hope you delete those negative things in your life. Remember stay updated with me and follow my Instagram!